Married and dating polyamory
With so many people to consider, this lifestyle is not about lots of sex so much as lots of scheduling.
The next day, Caleb returns to the home he shares with Sue, who used to live with Ana and Caleb in a love triad, but can no longer abide Ana's company.
She says she is open to whatever the future may hold.
"The thing with poly is there are no straight answers for anything.
Regular meet-ups take place in Auckland, Wellington and Dunedin, and will re-start in Christchurch once a new co-ordinator is found.
Poly hookups happen on Tinder and Ok Cupid while Kiwiburn, our version of the Burning Man festival, is known for being a poly hangout.